By: Daniel McArdle-Jaimes
It’s been 10+ years
since I’ve spoken to Mari Yokoi. Sure, we are friends on Facebook and
Instagram, but she barely comments on the photos or updates that are posted on
my Facebook or Instagram page. I’m not upset about it. I’m just calling her out
on it. In fact, I’m calling all of us out on that. Aren’t we all guilty of
that? We are friends with so many of our former classmates on Facebook or
Instagram, but we haven’t spoken personally to them in years!
When I reached out to Mari to acquire her interest via
Facebook Messenger Chat, I was actually quite surprised to earn her interest so
easily…I mean it’s been 10+ years since we literally talked! As we were
exchanging email addresses to set up our interview, it was like going back in
time. In those emails, I was humorously pleased to learn that Mari still likes
to take jabs at me (e.g. she’s still good about telling me “no” in her sassy
Mari-like manner and making me work hard to get her to sigh and say “Fine….I
guess I’ll do it...”). After all, she and I bickered a lot in high school when
we did student government things together. Actually, that’s one of my most
favorite memories of Mari.
In fact, I am going to go on record and say that Mari was
actually the brain child and FORCE behind convincing me to do all sorts of
embarrassing things for you all at school. She was the one that told me it
would be a good idea for me to dress up as Ricky Martin and Britney Spears at
the Welcome Program and Aloha Program. She (along with Karalyn Tom) were the ones responsible for choreographing the
dances to “Shake Your Bon Bon” and “Oops….I Did It Again”. And so, we can all
thank Mari Yokoi for that...
After a brief catch up and a couple more exchanged jabs,
here is a summary of my interview with Mari Yokoi:
1) What have you been up to over the last 15
years?
I moved to Kauai two and half years ago. I was in a long
distance relationship and we decided that it was time to for me to look for
employment on Kauai. When I was in Honolulu, I was working with Kamehameha Schools
(KS) at the time and one of my connections through KS, recommended me for a
position at Kanuikapono (a charter school on the east side of Kauai). I applied
and began immediately working as an Admin under the Executive Director/Principal.
The role grew as more responsibilities were given to me. While I liked working
at the charter school, I was beginning to feel a little burned out. Mari explained to me that charter schools have a small staff, so she
was taking on the workload for three to four people that their school couldn’t
hire for.
At the time, my boyfriend was coaching high school football
on Kauai, and one of the coaches referred me to an opening at Hawaii Gas, a
company he was working for. After a lengthy and weird interview process, I was
finally hired to work as the Admin Supervisor. In my role, I manage the
customer service representatives who work in the front office. I also get to
deal with the irate customers who request to speak with management. In
addition, I am also responsible for handling the back-end processes, including
debt or collections (the harder stuff) and leak credits. Also, I often times gather
data and generate reports to track information for our Business Unit. And
finally, I work with the general manager to improve operations, our procedures,
and assist in letters/correspondence with our customers. After hearing about
all of the things she’s doing, I grew exhausted trying to keep up with her on
the note taking. In summary, it certainly sounds like a job Mari would be good
at it.
2) There was a picture on your Facebook
profile. It looked like you were sworn in for something and got a lei for it.
It looked super important. What was that about?
It’s a long story. My boyfriend’s son’s grandpa served on
the county commission before. He also happens to be a good friend of the Kauai
mayor. Those that serve on a commission are all volunteers, and it’s difficult
to get community members to volunteer their time for civic duty.
One day he asked me via text if I was interested in serving
on the Fire Commission. I was trying to be nice and asked him to send over some
information (well in his mind, I had already said yes—I’ll do it). After reviewing
the responsibilities and giving it some thought, I realized that it would be a
good way to meet people in the community. I was sworn in last summer and will
serve a three-year term.
The fire commission meets 10 times a year and we meet with
the fire chief (he oversees all of Kauai’s fire stations) to review his budget
and goals. We basically make sure he’s doing his job. I never thought I would
serve on a commission, but it’s been interesting so far and I enjoy it.
3) What does alumni relations or school
relations mean to you?
I can’t say that I’ve been the most involved. Not that I
haven’t thought about it or wanted to…I think like you, and everyone else, I
just got busy with life.
I am a person that lives in the present, BUT I think it is
always important to remember where you came from and the opportunities you had.
For me, Mid-Pacific was “the good old days,” when you were growing up and life
was carefree. Back then, we only worried about homework, friends, and what we
were going to do during our free period.
4) What teacher/staff
member did you admire most in high school?
Mr. Wheeler. He
coaches Pac-5 football now. What is crazy is that my boyfriend used to coach
football with him. My boyfriend calls him “Billy” not Mr. Wheeler. But to me,
he will always be Mr. Wheeler. I actually saw Mr. Wheeler last summer when
Pac-5 played Waimea High School.
OK, but why did you
admire Mr. Wheeler in high school?
Mr. Wheeler was always there for me; he was someone that I
confided in personally when at school. I just admired how attentive he was. He
was always really open about information and advice.
5) Pick one classmate. Who do you most admire
and why?
Chad Nishi. She proudly and fondly proclaims.
That boy has gone through so much academically and he’s
finally living his dream by being a vet. He’s proof that perseverance pays off.
He lives far away now and I rarely see him, but I am so proud of him.
6) Who would you most want to see at the
Mid-Pacific reunion?
Well when is it?
It’s to be determined by the
reunion planning committee. Stay tuned in the coming week for details.
Lindsay Farias.
She’s another one. We are Facebook and Instagram friends, but just looking at
her photos…It looks like she is living her dream too! She’s working in Los
Angeles for a company that allows others, particularly younger people, to live
their dreams. Lindsay Farias is a talent agent. I’m trying to get an
interview with her.
We went to college (University of Southern California) together but I
haven’t seen her since. It would be interesting to see what she’s been up to.
7) What’s your favorite high school memory?
MPSA. The dance concerts were fun. I actually miss dance…a
lot. I think as you get older, there are some things that you just don’t do
anymore.
Mari used to do Zumba with an
instructor on Kauai who specialized in hip hop routines. However dance classes
are limited on Kauai and she’s no longer taking Zumba classes anymore insisting
it’s for “older people.”
MPSA gave me more of an appreciation for the arts. Mr. Maley and Ms. Yamada were not only my teachers, but former professional
dancers themselves. Their classes were structured in a professional fashion. They
taught us the technical movement, but also the style of dress. We learned what
was acceptable/unacceptable in the dance world. It was good for us. MPSA and
dance class provided us with “real world” insight into what it would be like to
be a professional dancer and that we should take our training seriously. I
appreciated that and miss it.
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